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He Almost Stabbed Me. I’ll Never Make a Bad Decision Again.

Now I Design for My Dumber Self

David Kadavy
7 min readMay 26, 2020
The Age of Bronze, Auguste Rodin

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As I kicked and punched at the man, I glanced at the knife in his right hand. And I felt it dig into my side.

It all started as I crossed paths with the man. He reached in his pocket, and pulled out the knife.

I then did what surely only an idiot would do. I began to fight him.

A few seconds earlier, as the man approached me on the path, he stared at me fiercely. He charged toward me, and bared his gritting teeth. His eyes reduced to snake-eye slits, and glowed under the harsh night lamplight. He shook his head from side to side, growling.

When the man transformed from just another passerby into a mortal threat, I felt something I had never felt before, and that I haven’t felt since. A bolt of lightning rose from my stomach, to my chest. I heard a deep growl grow into a roar. An authoritative “NOOO!”

It wasn’t until I heard that roar echo off the surrounding buildings that I realized — it had come from me.

It’s worth noting, I’ve never been a “tough guy.” I had never been in a fight. Yes, my older brother beat me up more times than I can…

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David Kadavy
David Kadavy

Written by David Kadavy

Author, ‘Mind Management, Not Time Management’ https://amzn.to/3p5xpcV Former design & productivity advisor to Timeful (Google acq’d).

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